How does one succeed in life?
16.06.2025 02:54
Making more friends is a goal.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
What is a good comeback for when someone calls you flat?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
What is the Replika app, and how does it work?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Can I fix a fridge leak myself, or should I call a pro?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Is it true that in 2028 there will be a new AIDS variant that will wipe out all the LBGTQ+ people?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Why am I not attracted to masculine men? Why do I like more feminine attributes on a man?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Which unexpected celebrity has done a bold or revealing photoshoot?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Does not procrastinate.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Hangs out with loser friends.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Ask yourself:
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
What I need from you?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
What is your review of House of the Dragon Season 2 finale, Episode 8?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Procrastinates a lot.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
That's it for today.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.